Monday, January 27, 2014

And then there were 11‏

Dear Family and Friends,
Today I hit 11 months as a missionary! It is so crazy to think that this time last year I was at home either just having barely gotten my mission call or about to get it. This week has been a crazy week too! Monday was a work day, Tuesday was P-day, and Wednesday we had interviews with our Mission President. Then for the rest of the week we went about contacting people and finding people to teach. This week though we met with a less active member who is going through a pretty messy divorce. She was talking to us and sharing how she joined the church and then expected all the people and families to be these perfect Mormon homes, and that wasn't the case for her. Well, as she was recounting all this some verse in Mormon chapter 9 came to mind... "30 Behold, I speak unto you as though I spake from the dead; for I know that ye shall have my words. 31Condemn me not because of mine imperfection, neither my father because of his imperfection, neither them who have written before him; but rather give thanks unto God that he hath made manifest unto you our imperfection, that ye may learn to be more wise than we have been."
     I have come across this verse several times in my studies now and I always think about all the people who have something against the church because Joseph Smith did this, or they knew someone who was Mormon and they did this... and so on an so forth. But, here in this scripture Mormon one of the last righteous people to live on the earth is pleading with the people of today not to condemn those people or specifically the Book of Mormon because of the people, but rather he tells us to thank God that we are able to see those imperfections so that we may learn from them. I love that in this gospel and in life in general we have the opportunity to see those weaknesses in ourselves and maybe in those that have gone before us, not so we can condemn them or ourselves but so that we can become better today than we were yesterday. I am so grateful for the Atonement and the opportunity I have to repent everyday and to strive to become better. We have been given such a great gift!! Yesterday in church we were talking about the concept of perfection and the teacher pointed out that there is a difference between being perfect and being perfected. In this life none of us is going to be perfect. It wont happen no matter how hard we try. However, we will all have the opportunity to become perfected. Everyday, as we end the day and pray to our Heavenly Father we have the opportunity to think over the day and to try to become better the next. How privileged we are!! I don't have a lot of time left so I will leave you with that! I hope you all have a fantastic week!
Love,
Sister Bice

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

Family and Friends

Dear Family and Friends!
This week was weird it seemed to go by slow but now as I am sitting here and thinking it over I keep thinking to myself, wait! That was only a week ago? Time here keeps getting weirder and weirder. I can't believe that next week I hit 11 months... But, this week was good:) Sister Harrop is feeling better so we tried to hit the pavement hard enough to make up for our sick week. We got a list from our bishop of Less Active members he wants us to visit and find out where they are and what their status is. Well, for the most part you would think we were tracting and not visiting less active... Every house we went to the Non-Member spouse of the less active member was the one who answered we were able to find a lot of new potential investigators:) It was a good week:) This week I was finishing up reading 2 Nephi and I pondered a lot over verse 4 "Wherefore, now after i have spoken these words, if ye cannot understand them it will be because ye ask not, neither do ye knock; wherefore, ye are not brought into the light, but must perish in the dark." This is something that I have seen a lot on my mission both in myself and others. There are times when I am going through something rough or trying to decide what we should do and I do so but I forget to include the Lord in my decision. This is especially important as we teach people. "No one can know of spiritual truths without prayer." PMG pg39 The first time I read that statement I was a little taken aback because we do have the spirit which testifies of truth when it is heard. But, truly God cannot take away our agency we have to seek out truth or guidance in order for him to be able to give it to us. He WANTS to bless us but in many cases he holds off or doesn't because we have forgotten to ask and to turn to him. I love you all and hope that you have a great week!
Love,
Sister Bice



Monday, January 13, 2014

Attitude of Gratitude‏

Dear Family and Friends,
This week has been a bit crazy! My poor companion was super sick and she had to spend most of the week recuperating. So, I ended up having a lot of extra study time throughout the week. But, it was good. It gave us as a companionship to reflect on the tender mercies of the Lord. On Thursday both Sister Harrop and I were feeling restless and wanted to get out and work but Sister Harrop was still in pretty bad condition so we decided to stay inside because we have a lot of new babies in the ward and didn't want to risk getting anyone sick. So, we were moping and we left the house but we didn't know what to do. Well, that night we received a super sweet text from the Relief Society President that just said she had seen and talked with a less active member we had been working with and that she had said that we are the reason she is holding on to her testimony and that she is so grateful for it. It was really such a tender mercy to have received that text on a day both of us were feeling like we were not doing what we wanted to and not because of any fault of our own but because of sickness. Luckily though things are looking up and we are able to get out of the house for longer and see more people gradually. In fact this week has reminded me of a scripture I was reading recently in the Book of Mormon it is in 1 Nephi 17 and it is Laman and and Lemuel and they are complaining to Nephi about all of their afflictions and all the things that they perceive are wrong in their lives and they say in verse 20 "And thou(Nephi) art like unto our father, led away by the foolish imaginations of his heart; yea, he hath led us out of the land of Jerusalem, and we have wandered in the wilderness for these many years; and our women have toiled, being big with child; and they have borne children in the wilderness and suffered all things, save it were death; and it would have been better that they had died before they come out of Jerusalem then to have suffered these afflictions." I think of this because even though Laman and Lemuel are complaining in this verse they are also highlighting the tender mercies of God. When they are talking about their women having children in the wilderness and none of them dying I was thinking about how big of a miracle that was. They were being protected and watched over by the Lord. However, one of the things that set Laman and Lemuel apart from their brother Nephi was that they didn't see the miracles and even when they did they ignored them. They failed to focus on the good and ignore maybe the dirt and things that were around them. One thing that my mission has shown me is that an Attitude of Gratitude is so very necessary. Every night when I come home I try to identify at least one miracle that I have seen throughout the day. If I do that then I don't focus on the man who may have yelled at us but rather I focus on the good things that happened. Missionary life is so hard at times!... most of the time. There are times when I want to just cry or give up. But!!! It is so worth it and the blessings of the Lord are so apparent in my life that if I remember the things he did for me then the rest of the icky or sad stuff doesn't really matter. Because I know above all that God loves me and I am His daughter and I also know that He loves everyone that I come in contact with and as I focus on that I am able to feel even a small portion of His love for them. I love you all and hope you have a great week!
Love,
Sister Bice

Monday, January 6, 2014

Back to the Springs!‏

Dear Family and Friends!
Last week was transfers week and I found myself being moved to Monument Colorado. It was a bit of a culture shock from little ol' pueblo but it has been a lot of fun! My new companion is Sister Harrop (Hair-up) and she is from Utah... I can't remember if is it Ogden or another town that starts with an O though.... We get along super well, and I'm excited for this next transfer. Things were crazy though with good-byes and the New Year. Ahhh!!! I can't even believe that it is already 2014! Time is flying by so fast and at the end of this month I will be 11 months out and it will have been a year since I received my call letter! I don't know where all the time went! But, other than that this week has consisted of a lot of unpacking and getting used to a new area all over again as well as a lot of tearful good-bye's to Pueblo West. It hasn't been too different. Monument doesn't have street lights or very many sidewalks and curbs but it is defiantly a nicer area than Pueblo west. Hmmm... Other than that I don't think anything too exciting happened this week. Recently, I was thinking a lot about the scripture in Helaman 5:12 Sister Harrop and Sister Soliven both really like this scripture. So it says:
"And now, my sons, remember, remember that it is upon the rock of our redeemer, who is Christ, The Son of God, that ye must build your foundation; that when the devil shall send forth his mighty winds, yea, his shafts in the whirlwind, yea, when all his hail and his mighty storm shall beat upon you, it shall have no power over you to drag you down to the gulf of misery and endless wo, because of the rock upon which ye are built, which is a sure foundation, a foundation whereon if men build thy cannot fall." So, as I have been thinking about this in recent weeks I was thinking about how the wording says that Christ is a SURE foundation. So of course I thought of some not so sure foundations and what came to mind was Sandstone rock. Some people find this semi-balance of what makes them happy. For some it is money, friends, or other worldly things and they build their foundation upon that. But those things are like Sandstone that as time  goes they erode and wear away in the storms of life. They don't have sufficient strength to make you happy. But, here we have a promise that when we build our life centered on Christ then nothing Satan does will have power to drag us down. The rock of our Redeemer doesn't erode in the face of storms but rather it is always there for us to use as a support and help and protection during the stormy times of life. Being on a mission I feel like I have seen a lot of people who reject a foundation on Christ because they have built up a foundation on something else. But, what they don't understand is that when time goes by it is not a foundation of Sandstone that will help them through but a SURE foundation. I love you all!! I hope you all have had a good week and have set some good goals for 2014!!
Love,
Sister Bice